31 December, Sunday – In Good Times And Bad

31 December – The Holy Family 

Today the Church marks the feast of the Holy Family of Nazareth. It is a liturgical celebration in honour of Jesus of Nazareth, his mother, the Blessed Virgin Mary, and his foster father, Saint Joseph, as a family. The Feast of the Holy Family is celebrated on the Sunday following Christmas, unless that Sunday is January 1, in which case it is celebrated on December 30.

Scripture tells us practically nothing about the first years and the boyhood of the Child Jesus. All we know are the facts of the sojourn in Egypt, the return to Nazareth, and the incidents that occurred when the twelve-year-old boy accompanied his parents to Jerusalem. In her liturgy the Church hurries over this period of Christ’s life with equal brevity. The general breakdown of the family, however, at the end of the past century and at the beginning of our own, prompted the popes, especially the far-sighted Leo XIII, to promote the observance of this feast with the hope that it might instil into Christian families something of the faithful love and the devoted attachment that characterize the family of Nazareth. The primary purpose of the Church in instituting and promoting this feast is to present the Holy Family as the model and exemplar of all Christian families.

– CatholicCulture.org


Ecclesiasticus 3:3-7,14-17

The Lord honours the father in his children,
and upholds the rights of a mother over her sons.
Whoever respects his father is atoning for his sins,
he who honours his mother is like someone amassing a fortune.
Whoever respects his father will be happy with children of his own,
he shall be heard on the day when he prays.
Long life comes to him who honours his father,
he who sets his mother at ease is showing obedience to the Lord.
My son, support your father in his old age,
do not grieve him during his life.
Even if his mind should fail, show him sympathy,
do not despise him in your health and strength;
or kindness to a father shall not be forgotten
but will serve as reparation for your sins.


Colossians 3:12-21

You are God’s chosen race, his saints; he loves you, and you should be clothed in sincere compassion, in kindness and humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with one another; forgive each other as soon as a quarrel begins. The Lord has forgiven you; now you must do the same. Over all these clothes, to keep them together and complete them, put on love. And may the peace of Christ reign in your hearts, because it is for this that you were called together as parts of one body. Always be thankful.

Let the message of Christ, in all its richness, find a home with you. Teach each other, and advise each other, in all wisdom. With gratitude in your hearts sing psalms and hymns and inspired songs to God; and never say or do anything except in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Wives, give way to your husbands, as you should in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and treat them with gentleness. Children, be obedient to your parents always, because that is what will please the Lord. Parents, never drive your children to resentment or you will make them feel frustrated.


Luke 2:41-52

Every year the parents of Jesus used to go to Jerusalem for the feast of the Passover. When he was twelve years old, they went up for the feast as usual. When they were on their way home after the feast, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem without his parents knowing it. They assumed he was with the caravan, and it was only after a day’s journey that they went to look for him among their relations and acquaintances. When they failed to find him they went back to Jerusalem looking for him everywhere.

Three days later, they found him in the Temple, sitting among the doctors, listening to them, and asking them questions; and all those who heard him were astounded at his intelligence and his replies. They were overcome when they saw him, and his mother said to him, ‘My child, why have, you done this to us? See how worried your father and I have been, looking for you.’ ‘Why were you looking for me?’ he replied ‘Did you not know that I must be busy with my Father’s affairs?’ But they did not understand what he meant.

He then went down with them and came to Nazareth and lived under their authority. His mother stored up all these things in her heart. And Jesus increased in wisdom, in stature, and in favour with God and men.


“And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection.”

As the end of yet another year draws to a close, I’ve been reflecting on how it would not have been possible for me to have made it through all of 2017’s challenges without my family’s unwavering love and support.

Having received so much from them, I’ve also been considering if I have, at the very least, reciprocated their actions. It is so easy to stick to routines and habits because our families have accomodated our quirks over the years. Yet, one simple gesture by my father got me thinking. He prepares cut fruit every morning for our family breakfast and usually, the fruit is piled generously but haphazardly in bowls. One day last week, I saw that the fruit had been sorted according to colour and was plated rather nicely. My father commented that he thought he would try something different just to make things more fun.

That simple gesture sparked a series of small yet meaningful changes in our home. Shoes were rearranged differently, we started sharing jokes in our family group chat, and even our socks have been folded more efficiently (thanks to the infinite resources available on YouTube). As I admire all the changes in our lives, I’ve realised that it is the small things that we do that chip away at lingering hardness or unforgiveness that has developed over the years.

In a world where options are valued, let us come to cherish the family that God has bestowed on us. For better or worse, may we always choose to commit to them fully.

(Today’s OXYGEN by Anonymous)

Prayer: Dear Lord, may we always be nurturing and giving members of our families. May we never take them for granted.

Thanksgiving: We thank you Father, for the family you have blessed us with. In appreciation, we pray for the grace to always stay close to them.

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