all wild beasts.
You shall crawl on your belly and eat dust
every day of your life.
I will make you enemies of each other:
you and the woman,
your offspring and her offspring.
It will crush your head
and you will strike its heel.’
The man named his wife ‘Eve’ because she was the mother of all those who live.
who has blessed us with all the spiritual blessings of heaven in Christ.
Before the world was made, he chose us, chose us in Christ,
to be holy and spotless, and to live through love in his presence,
determining that we should become his adopted sons, through Jesus Christ
for his own kind purposes,
to make us praise the glory of his grace,
his free gift to us in the Beloved,
And it is in him that we were claimed as God’s own,
hosen from the beginning,
under the predetermined plan of the one who guides all things
as he decides by his own will;
chosen to be,
for his greater glory,
the people who would put their hopes in Christ before he came.
“let what you have said be done to me” (Mary’s Fiat)
St Irenaeus tells us that death came into the world by the disobedience of one virgin (Eve), and so our redemption was brought about the obedience of another virgin, Mary, the new Eve.
I tend to speak about obedience quite a bit and I cant help but come back to this point again. I would say that the 2 things that would make our ministry lives more pleasant and less tense would be — obedience and honesty.
Through disobedience, Adam and Eve were kicked out of the garden, a metaphor for falling out of grace; they lost their preternatural gifts. The church teaches us that these are the preternatural gifts they lost: impassibility (freedom from pain), immortality (freedom from death), integrity (freedom from concupiscence, or disordered desires), infused knowledge (freedom from ignorance in matters essential for happiness). And so for us, disobedience to parents, to ministry leaders, our priests, Holy Mother Church and even bosses, will lead us down this slippery slope because we have been cut off (so to speak) from our head, our authority. In spiritual life, I liken this as well to protection from evil.
Let’s take two quotes to drive home this point on obedience.
“The Devil doesn’t fear austerity but holy obedience.” – St. Francis de Sales
“Obedience unites us so closely to God that in a way transforms us into Him, so that we have no other will but His. If obedience is lacking, even prayer cannot be pleasing to God.” – St. Thomas Aquinas
Honesty lets everyone know what kind of space you are in, in life, at the moment. Many arguments and disagreements and even false judgements are formed when people are dishonest. In community, we practice something called ‘checking in’. Before we begin a meeting or prayer, it is always helpful to know where a person is in life. We should be less concerned with the ‘quality of work’ a person produces and more in tune with the actual person. Often, we will hear of people who are coming from tough circumstances — a tense atmosphere at home, the loss of a loved one, loss of a job — and if we just continue to pile on them like machines, we get very unhappy ministries. Very recently, I made this mistake and it left me with a sick feeling in my stomach because I didn’t see two sides of a story. With Mary’s help, we might be a little more human. So let us see, with Jesus’ eyes, people for who they are — themselves.
(Today’s OXYGEN by Daryl De Payva)
Prayer: Hail Mary, full of Grace the Lord is with you. Blessed are you among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary Mother of God, pray for us sinners now, and at the hour of death. Amen.
Thanksgiving: Thank you Lord, for giving us a mother who was human, so that we too might be more human and see more humanly!