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18 June, Saturday – Day after Today

18 June

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2 Chronicles 24:17-25

After the death of Jehoiada, the officials of Judah came to pay court to the king, and the king now turned to them for advice. The Judaeans abandoned the Temple of the Lord, the God of their ancestors, for the worship of sacred poles and idols. Because of their guilt, God’s anger fell on Judah and Jerusalem. He sent them prophets to bring them back to the Lord, but when these gave their message, they would not listen. The spirit of God took possession of Zechariah son of Jehoiada the priest. He stood up before the people and said, ‘God says this, “Why do you transgress the commandments of the Lord to no good purpose? You have deserted the Lord, now he deserts you.”’ They then plotted against him and by order of the king stoned him in the court of the Temple of the Lord. King Joash, forgetful of the kindness that Jehoiada, the father of Zechariah, had shown him, killed Jehoiada’s son who cried out as he died, ‘The Lord sees and he will avenge!’

When a year had gone by, the Aramaean army made war on Joash. They reached Judah and Jerusalem, and executed all the officials among the people, sending back to the king at Damascus all that they had plundered from them. Though the Aramaean army had by no means come in force, the Lord delivered into its power an army of great size for having deserted him, the God of their ancestors.

The Aramaeans treated Joash as he had deserved, and when they retired they left him a very sick man; and his officers, plotting against him to avenge the death of the son of Jehoiada the priest, murdered him in his bed. So he died, and they buried him in the Citadel of David, though not in the tombs of the kings.

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Matthew 6:24-34

Jesus said to his disciples: ‘No one can be the slave of two masters: he will either hate the first and love the second, or treat the first with respect and the second with scorn. You cannot be the slave both of God and of money.

‘That is why I am telling you not to worry about your life and what you are to eat, nor about your body and how you are to clothe it. Surely life means more than food, and the body more than clothing! Look at the birds in the sky. They do not sow or reap or gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they are? Can any of you, for all his worrying, add one single cubit to his span of life? And why worry about clothing? Think of the flowers growing in the fields; they never have to work or spin; yet I assure you that not even Solomon in all his regalia was robed like one of these. Now if that is how God clothes the grass in the field which is there today and thrown into the furnace tomorrow, will he not much more look after you, you men of little faith? So do not worry; do not say, “What are we to eat? What are we to drink? How are we to be clothed?” It is the pagans who set their hearts on all these things. Your heavenly Father knows you need them all. Set your hearts on his kingdom first, and on his righteousness, and all these other things will be given you as well. So do not worry about tomorrow: tomorrow will take care of itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.’

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So do not worry about tomorrow.

Before getting off from work, I write down things to do for the following day.  That way I will not miss any important task.  I become worrisome and worked up whenever I am experiencing tight deadlines at work.  I tend to multitask and end up feeling exhausted by the end of the day.  What did I accomplish?  It is a very difficult question.

It says in the Gospel, “No one can be the slave of two masters: he will either hate the first and love the second, or treat the first with respect and the second with scorn. You cannot be the slave both of God and of money.”  Actually this is true.  There is this word, “focus”, which signifies singularity.  It is either this one or that one.  It can never be both.  It will be too tiring and will end up not focusing to neither.  Choosing God over money does not mean not doing anything and just wait for God to feed us.  It says in 2 Thessalonians 3:10, “We gave you a rule when we were with you: do not let anyone have any food if he refuses to do any work.”  There is no blessing to those who are lazy.  We will starve to death if we do not buy food and water.  Our bills will not pay for themselves.  So definitely we do need money.

Yet, attachment to money is dangerous.   It also includes attachment to fame, power, and possessions.  It may turn us into a greedy person that leads to negative relationship with others.  And these instances push us away from God.  We might be thinking that we are working to live a comfortable life.  But the end result is we are living to work.  Do we work hard to earn more in order to serve the Lord?  Or do we work hard to earn more in order to serve ourselves?  Or do we live our life everyday, working so hard and wearing ourselves out?

Money is not bad as it is.  It becomes the root of evil if we choose it over God.  It is bad if we become greedy, have hatred, and become an unforgiving person because of it.  We must make money a tool so that whatever we do, we offer it to God.  This will make our Lord the center of our everything.

Before we sleep each night, let us try to reflect what happened that day.  Let us ask ourselves, “What did I accomplish?  Did I do something that is pleasing to God?  Do I see God in what I do?”

(Today’s OXYGEN by Beryl Baterina)

Prayer: Father God, please grant us joy while facing our daily struggles.  Please allow our hearts to choose to serve the Lord over our desire to material wealth.  We pray that we will not be too attached with our money but rather be generous to share it with others.

Thanksgiving: We thank you Lord for the blessings and graces we received.  We thank you Father for all things that we have that sustains our daily life.

14 June, Tuesday – Love Liberates

14 June 

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1 Kings 21:17-29

After the death of Naboth, the word of the Lord came to Elijah the Tishbite, ‘Up! Go down to meet Ahab king of Israel, in Samaria. You will find him in Naboth’s vineyard; he has gone down to take possession of it. You are to say this to him, “the Lord says this: You have committed murder; now you usurp as well. For this – and the Lord says this – in the place where the dogs licked the blood of Naboth, the dogs will lick your blood too.”’ Ahab said to Elijah, ‘So you have found me out, O my enemy!’ Elijah answered, ‘I have found you out. For your double dealing, and since you have done what is displeasing to the Lord, I will now bring disaster down on you; I will sweep away your descendants, and wipe out every male belonging to the family of Ahab, fettered or free in Israel. I will treat your House as I treated the House of Jeroboam son of Nebat and of Baasha son of Ahijah, for provoking my anger and leading Israel into sin. (Against Jezebel the Lord spoke these words: The dogs will eat Jezebel in the Field of Jezreel.) Those of Ahab’s family who die in the city, the dogs will eat; and those who die in the open country, the birds of the air will eat.’

And indeed there never was anyone like Ahab for double dealing and for doing what is displeasing to the Lord, urged on by Jezebel his wife. He behaved in the most abominable way, adhering to idols, just as the Amorites used to do whom the Lord had dispossessed for the sons of Israel.

When Ahab heard these words, he tore his garments and put sackcloth next his skin and fasted; he slept in the sackcloth; he walked with slow steps. Then the word of the Lord came to Elijah the Tishbite, ‘Have you seen how Ahab has humbled himself before me? Since he has humbled himself before me, I will not bring the disaster in his days; I will bring the disaster down on his House in the days of his son.’

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Matthew 5:43-48

Jesus said to his disciples, ‘You have learnt how it was said: You must love your neighbour and hate your enemy. But I say this to you: love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you; in this way you will be sons of your Father in heaven, for he causes his sun to rise on bad men as well as good, and his rain to fall on honest and dishonest men alike. For if you love those who love you, what right have you to claim any credit? Even the tax collectors do as much, do they not? And if you save your greetings for your brothers, are you doing anything exceptional? Even the pagans do as much, do they not? You must therefore be perfect just as your heavenly Father is perfect.’

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Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you

There was a time when I was young, where I always wondered why the protagonists on TV dramas were always driven by hatred against their enemies to motivate them to accomplish their desired aim. Whilst one can put it down to good TV dramatics, I believe that hate as a motivation does allow a person to have a purpose of living. It is in the readings of today which remind us that it is love, and not hate, which will ultimately be liberation for the person.

Jesus reminds us that we need to love our enemies and do good to those who have persecuted us. Such an approach may seem counter-intuitive but the whole being and nature of Jesus is one of love. This love is one which is ever-forgiving and welcoming of the individual. We see a glimpse of this in the first reading where God was angry with Ahab for behaving in an unacceptable way through acts of murder and being a poor leader to the people of Israel. Yet God still forgave him when he repented despite his failings. In our eyes, he should have been punished severely for the sins he had committed, yet God forgives Ahab because he has shown himself to be repentant.

Love forgives the greatest fault of an individual but it is up to us to decide if we want to extend this love to the people around us. Sometimes, it is hard to do so especially if this hurt has accumulated over a period of time but we must realise that hate will consume us and make us feel angry unnecessarily. Only love can free us from the pain in our lives and the grief which we have been holding onto for the longest time.

(Today’s OXYGEN by Nicholas Chia)

Prayer: Heavenly Father, we ask for the grace to forgive our enemies.

Thanksgiving: We give thanks for all confessors for the gift of helping each of us to see God’s love in action.