7 November 2017
All of us, in union with Christ, form one body, and as parts of it we belong to each other. Our gifts differ according to the grace given us. If your gift is prophecy, then use it as your faith suggests; if administration, then use it for administration; if teaching, then use it for teaching. Let the preachers deliver sermons, the almsgivers give freely, the officials be diligent, and those who do works of mercy do them cheerfully.
Do not let your love be a pretence, but sincerely prefer good to evil. Love each other as much as brothers should, and have a profound respect for each other. Work for the Lord with untiring effort and with great earnestness of spirit. If you have hope, this will make you cheerful. Do not give up if trials come; and keep on praying. If any of the saints are in need you must share with them; and you should make hospitality your special care.
Bless those who persecute you: never curse them, bless them. Rejoice with those who rejoice and be sad with those in sorrow. Treat everyone with equal kindness; never be condescending but make real friends with the poor. Do not allow yourself to become self-satisfied.
One of those gathered round the table said to him, ‘Happy the man who will be at the feast in the kingdom of God!’ But he said to him, ‘There was a man who gave a great banquet, and he invited a large number of people. When the time for the banquet came, he sent his servant to say to those who had been invited, “Come along: everything is ready now.” But all alike started to make excuses. The first said, “I have bought a piece of land and must go and see it. Please accept my apologies.” Another said, “I have bought five yoke of oxen and am on my way to try them out. Please accept my apologies.” Yet another said, “I have just got married and so am unable to come.”
‘The servant returned and reported this to his master. Then the householder, in a rage, said to his servant, “Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in here the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.” “Sir” said the servant “your orders have been carried out and there is still room.” Then the master said to his servant, “Go to the open roads and the hedgerows and force people to come in to make sure my house is full; because, I tell you, not one of those who were invited shall have a taste of my banquet.”’
…make people come in that my home may be filled
As Catholics, we are One in Christ, through His body. How wonderful is that really – that He has made me, the lowly, One with Him.
A year ago, I had started spending more time at my hometown. It is a suburban town and people seem rather different to what I had become accustomed to in the city. Initially, I found it hard to accept their social mannerisms. Thankfully, this label unpeeled itself to reveal to me the sincerity and simplicity of these people. Truth be told, they have the values of Christ just as my community in the city parish.
It was a battle for me to see beyond my human eyes and mind. And just like that, I feel the ‘lowly’ are people we continue to dismiss because they do not live up to our expectations. Expecting others to meet our expectations is not sincere love; rather, it is self-seeking and bluntly put, pathetic. None of us want to be pathetic but that is what we are when we are insincere.
Recently, one of my friends was defending insincerity; she said that “they were just being clever”. That statement made me a little anxious and I continued to pray about it. A few days ago, that same friend mentioned that she had to entertain colleagues who were insincere and she was rather anxious of having to do that alone. It is possible that since our initial conversation, she sees sincerity as being crucial.
In today’s reading we are told to love another and not to grow wary in our zeal, to rejoice in hope and to pray unceasingly. When things are going downhill, it is not hard to remain sincere and loving, if we continue to do as the readings suggest. Our flesh is not too weak that God cannot strengthen it.
Rejoice with those who are rejoicing and weep with those who are weeping – simply put, we need to celebrate the success of others, because it can eliminate any traces of envy and we should comfort those who are suffering. One of the best things of being human is that we can ‘feel for each other.’ Even animals are good at that. When one of our dogs Caro, died, I cried together with my other dog who though not human, was a sincere friend to me and to Caro.
Are we not better than dogs? Surely that is up to us, in how we see our sisters and brothers, the way we embrace being One, even with the lowly ones and striving towards our faithfulness to attend mass every Sunday. Our essence of oneness is encapsulated in the body of Christ and we should constantly partake in these gifts of love and sincerity.
If we do all this and continue to be one with the lowly, you and I will be like a weaned child who has survived our infancy, ready to consume the solids (which is our lives on earth) in anticipation of arriving at our eternal home. Brothers and sisters, I cannot think of greater joy than that.
(Today’s Oxygen by Josephine Dionisappu)
Prayer: Lord, forgive us for missing our Sunday masses and that of the days set aside for worship. We had failed to accept your invitation to your banquet and though we are not worthy, we plead you to purify us and make us love like You did, so that we can become One with you and all those whom you have invited.
Thanksgiving: O Author of Love and Friend of the Lovely, thank you for calling us to your banquet.